September 27

Building the courage to ask her for a dance

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Inner game seduction tips for salsa dancers looking for a thrill of romance at a salsa dancing club or Latin clubs. Here is my story.
She’s sitting by herself on the table by the edge of the dance floor and the band started playing you’re favorite song. You have 3 seconds to act. Wait, not even 3 seconds, you a split second before the rest of the pack make their move.
Make your move. The time is now. You can’t move your legs and hesitate. Too, late a guy already asked her out. You see him holding her hands leading her to the floor as they embrace to Hector Lavoe.
A tear rolls down your eye.
How do you build your courage to ask a girl to dance? Sometimes guys could over analyze this and write a book on the subject. We are all experts in the art of seeking the approval of a woman and have numerous of tales and scientific research to share.
I’ll share this one about inner game seduction tips.
This is what I do to build my confidence on some particular nights. Well, it’s really not a technique, it’s a state of mind which dramatically makes my time wonderful when I go out dancing or whenever I go out to paint the town red.
If I’m going to NYC, It’s on. It’s an expression some guys say. When it’s on, it’s on and we’re going to take care of business tonight. We don’t care if a hundred girls reject us, we don’t care if it’s an open room and everyone could see us walking up to her.
Tonight is our night and we’re going to have a great time. I feel this way as soon as I enter the car. We blast the music and talk about positive things with my friends or date. We’re grooving in the car to the beat of the music and get excited about the littlest things.
For example, I usually take route 3 east to NYC. I’ll say something about the smallest details or new things I see along the way, the stores, the lights, the road, the scene, etc. I’m starting to get myself excited about the night.
We’ll either find a parking space or put the car in a garage. It depends, if we’re feeling cheap, we’ll usually find parking 8 blocks away from the club. Actually, it’s fun walking to the club because we always make it an adventure. Our momentum builds as we get closer.
Some guys have their own mix of alcoholic brew in the car’s trunk. They’ll usually mix up their own concoction and shoot the breeze for a while. Hey, you know how much are the drinks in Manhattan? This is an inner game seduction tips for some people.
As we walk to our destination, we get cockier and swagger. If a girl walking by us captures our attention, we give her a compliment. I love your shoes, or you dress looks great. We start throwing out and practicing. By the time we reach the club, we’re warmed up and excited.
Remember get in the frame of mind as soon as you enter the car and keep the energy happening till you get there.
Leave your worries at home and deal with them tomorrow. Tonight it’s party time. Remember guys, when it’s on, nothing can touch you, just go up to every girl and ask her to dance. Also, don’t be too selective, dance with all the girls and put a smile on their face.
The women will notice your energy and will be more receptive. Hopefully, these inner game seduction tips help out.
This is one of the best ways it works for me. There are other things I do but this not only helps me deal with rejection, it enables me to enjoy life more.


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